How do we do it? Do we cry? Are we sad? if our loved one has been suffering are we glad that the pain is over that they have moved on to a better place? I think the biggest question is what do we do about the big black hole that is left? How do we grieve?
For each person its different, we have different beliefs and cultures and every single one of us is an individual, i dont think there is a right way or a wrong way i dont think there are a specific set of feelings or actions that we should do or display. Its whatever helps the person, allows them to carry on.
The pain of loosing a loved one is huge for some of us its like our world stops and we have no idea what to do, they say time is a great healer and as time passes pain does diminish, and for me personally my memories pull me through i remember everything i did with my lost ones everything about them that made them a huge amazing part of my life, for every worde they spoke and breathed into my life that still impacts me today.
For all those we have lost we miss you immensely but are so thankful you were in our lives and for everything you gave us, we will never forget you!
*sigh*
such incidents surely leave a wound unhealed..